Feast your eyes on The Washington Post's latest article on the state on the black woman:
Survey Paints Portrait of Black Women in America
Go ahead... take a look. It's not nearly as daunting as previous articles. The story which basically summarizes the most striking points from an 800 person survey, is the first in a series of articles on the current state of the black woman in America. Apparently, the Post has found out that all black women aren't angry after all nor are we kitchen bound mammies. Well looky there. All hints of cynicism aside, the article presented some interesting findings and brought to the forefront some very pertinent issues.
Nearly 3/4s of black women think now think it is a good time to be black in America
There are more than 900,000 businesses in America that are owned by black women
67% of black women describe themselves as having high self esteem
67% of single black women would be willing to marry outside of the race
63% of women said it was acceptable to have a child without being married
As of 2008, only 9% of black women married outside of the race; compared to nearly 20% of black men
45% of black women say getting married is very important
Screeeeeeeeeech!!!
Wait what? Only 45%? Seeing as this is a relationship centered blog, all of those other stats are great, awesome even, it's about time black women are looked at as being the dynamic beings we are, however that last stat stopped me in my tracks. Marriage is only important to 45% of us? I'm not saying everybody has to want to get married or else you aint sh*t, eh, okay maybe I am. But what I really want to know is am I the only one shocked that less that half of black women out here find marriage to be important? And while marriage is important to only 45% of black women, 63% are a-okay with having children without being married. And the black family continues to be on the decline. Hmmmmm... interesting.
I truly think that it's only important to 45% of black to get married because they have trained themselves to think this Is okay because men drag them along and do not want to commit. I think more really do want to be married. 63% of black women being okay with being a single parent is alarming. How does someone not want a family that consists of a mother and father that live under one roof? Most times it's a repeated cycle of single black parents. I would think though that those women who grew up in single parent home would not want the same for their children.
ReplyDeleteThere's no denying that we have some totally messed up thought processes going on here. And you're right that 63% being okay with single motherhood stat is alarming. For whatever reason, we still fail to see the value of having a complete family structure. It's really a shame.
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